What is wrong with the social service child support offices in North Carolina?

Two years ago I took child support out on my child%26#039;s father. He is such a dead beat...the worker sent a letter to his residence in which he 37 years old and still lives at home . His mother calls the worker to reschedule the first appt. and since then he has been missing.. He also got 7 other kids that he havent paid child support for since 3-2006 and that was $6 a piece...I wish I would of known he was like that before I had a baby by him.....But again at the time I was 16 and he was 26 ( which I didnt know that either)...He is able to buy new shoes, cars, and clothes all the time . While me a full time student and worker provides for our child. The government don%26#039;t want to help the people trying ...they feel as if you can afford everything. But the people that don%26#039;t try and just sit at home, they are taking care of..I don%26#039;t want any hand-outs.. I know I am a Strong female...But I want to know when North Carolina%26#039;s Child support system is going to start doing their job, %26amp;find the jerk

What is wrong with the social service child support offices in North Carolina?
$6.00 a piece - oh my gosh - it wouldn%26#039;t be worth my trouble trying to get anything from a lowlife from him. He will always be like this - you can%26#039;t get money from somebody that doesn%26#039;t have it... he doesn%26#039;t own anything or have any money.





but, if you don%26#039;t think the child support services are doing there job - do some investigating yourself. call his relatives - don%26#039;t tell them who you are - find out where he works or where he lives - and then give that info to the C.S office - they can%26#039;t go hunt him down if they don%26#039;t know where he lives.


you know his friends - you know his parents - you know his relatives - So -become an investigator!
Reply:Well I want to know when Tennessee%26#039;s Juvenile Court system is going to start doing their jobs too. I don%26#039;t have any children but my boyfriend does and he is on child support. They take over half of his pay check every pay period which leaves him with hardly any money to live off of. He loves his kids and wants to take care of them but he needs to be allowed to take care of himself as well. He has tried to set court dates to get it lowered but they always give him a stupid @ss reason as to why they cannot set a court date for him. I feel bad for him that he can%26#039;t afford to do a lot of the simple things like buy clothes and shoes for himself and keep gas in his car. I think that whole system is screwed and people on both sides of the fence get played and can%26#039;t benefit from it. There needs to be some harsh regulations against those that do not do what they are suppose to do and some rewards for those who do abide by the rules. However, I don%26#039;t see that happening anytime soon though. Good luck.
Reply:Well I want to know when the crappy county of San Bernardino is going to get it%26#039;s Child Support System right.. his cow of an ex AND her sleazy attorney.. filed a temporary order 2 years ago that has my fiance paying support for TWO children and they only have ONE!!! We have shown them the proof and they say they understand but because it is a temporary order there is NOTHING they can do... so my fiance is being garnished for 2780$ a month and he doesn%26#039;t even make that!!!!! So every month they take all but 400$ of his checks and he is STILL going in arrears for about 1500$ and the cow sits on her butt living with mommy and daddy, refuses to let him have contact with his daughter and won%26#039;t do anything to finish the divorce because her lawyer has told her once there is a real support order her gravy train is over and she will have to pay him back all that he has over paid..





The system is completely jacked up and we are paying for it (literally)




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